Wednesday, October 18, 2017

How to win friends and influence people

Six rules to make people like you. If you want people to like you...
Rule #1:Become Genuinely interested in other people

Being a friend is about knowing that person and obviously you must be interested in them. Friends are people that know each other and always are interested with them. Making friends is great because that is someone you know and can talk to and share what's on each others mind. People will become interested in you and will want to be your friend and that will lead to a friendship. Friendship is all about knowing each other and one of the best way of knowing them is by asking questions that you know they will feel comfortable answering. Sometimes a question can be risky and you might not know it, but you can all fix it up if you continue it if they're comfortable. Knowing your friend is important and knowing about them is because you're interested in making friends and that's what matters that you have friends to rely on. Some friends will get closer than others and those who you mainly are interested the most and are interested on you too. People will know you as a friend and will be happily to see you. Lots of people can and will get interested in you for who you are.


Rule #2: Smile

A smile is what best speaks about a person. A smiles action is showing that you are happy to see someone and they are happy to see you. A smile is a perfect way to make friends. I believe it is the key part for someone on becoming a friend. The reason I believe it's the key part on becoming a friend and having friends is because it's an action  that shows that your're happy and is excited to see them. A smile is what a friend looks forward on seeing when they see their friend or friends. A smile comes out of all the joy you have with that friend. If you don't feel like smiling then you must force it because you might break your friends smile when you see them. A smile can speak many words but it totally says "I want to be your friend to other people." I have read books on where it states "having a smile is a key point of making friends." 


Rule #3: Remember names


Remembering names is important. It's important because friends like it when you remember their name. If you can't remember their name but they know yours it's a bit of disappointing to feel because you don't know their name. Knowing a person's name is an important feature of a person you want to be friends with. A name is given to everyone and it is important for people to remember it. People like hearing their name being used by their friends. Remembering names is a key part in making friends because it all starts by knowing who they are. Knowing a person's name is the start that can lead to a big friendship. I know a lot of people and I know them by their name and call them by their name because they are someone that I call a friend. My friends name is important to them and it is important to me to call them by their name. I might create a nickname for some of my friends and call them that way because that was friendship is all about doing what I can call my friends by and knowing that it's fine with us. 


Rule # 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves. 

Being a good listener is important because you have to listen to anything people are saying to you. You have to pay attention to what your friends are saying because they feel comfortable by saying stuff to you. It is important to keep encouraging your friends to tell you something because you can come up with a solution for them. A person must know their friends very well and must listen to them. I am interested in people and I want them to become my friends so I must listen to what they must say to me. It is important to know what my friends say because I get to know them more and that creates an important bond.  I would always create a conversation with my friends. Our conversation will go from one thing to another and literally will have no ending because it is that interesting. If I do not listen to my friends then i will probably feel sad because they were expecting for me to listen and  couldn't, I will feel ashamed. It it is important that the person you are interested in himself just as he is interested in you. 


Rule # 5: Talk in terms of other man's interest


It is important to be talking in the terms the person of your interest to be talking in the way that interests him or her. The way to create a good friend from meeting them is to talk about the things that interest them. For example if you meet up with someone who likes baseball it is best to talk about the sport they like not soccer nor football, it's baseball. Someone wouldn't be interested in you if you seem to talk about something that doesn't interest them. They will soon get to know you by the way that you talk to the person of your interest. The they will talk about what interests you and that will start the friendship bond. Friends are made by each other's interest and will even attain new things because of the friendship. I have many friends and the thing that we talk about the most is our favorite sport soccer, we could go on for days and days talking about our interests. The terms must be applied in the way you speak to them that will start the interest from them to you. With this rule the interest will start a friendship.


Rule #6: Make the other person feel important, and do it sincerely. 

It is very important for people themselves to feel important. Friends are very important to each other. It is important to keep your friends for as long as you can, because they are people who are important to you and you are important to them. My friends are important to me and I know that I am important to them. I have great pleasure for the friends that I have made and got interest to. It must be done sincere to make someone feel important because the way you make them feel important is the way you show how much you show the interest in them. I show interest to all my friends and I know that they show the same amount of interest that I show to them. I create good moments with my friends and show them that they are my friends that mean a lot to me. I help out my friends and people because I know that they are important and they have my interest. It's all in the way of manner to show that they are important and to demonstrate just how much this person of interest means to you. 


Reflection:

These six rules are rules that will definitely guarantee a friend. In rule number one you must be interested in people, that means you must look at people who you have an interest making your friend as they will also have on you. The most important rule that I think is on these six rules is to smile. Smiling is the best feature to show when making friends because they can see you are happy to see them and they know that you feel fine and there isn't anything wrong because all they want to do is just become friends with the person that interest them. A smile means a lot to me and when I see it I know they feel good. Remembering names is important because people love to hear their name it is given to them since the day they are born and they will forever be hearing their name from that day, Remembering a person's name will make them have a feeling of friendship. It is important to always listen to what people say to you, if you don't then a very hard time will be with you. Listening is a great feature we have and it is great to listen to the people we are interested in becoming our friend so that's why it's also important to listen to what they like. Talking with terms to your person of interest is highly best to do, because they must hear the tone that you will speak to them if that makes them feel good or not. If I am interested in a person I will talk to them in the manor that they would love to be talked to. The person that I am interested in must feel important and that is what I do I make the person I want to be my friend feel important and I do it in the way where they are glad I am interested in them. 

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